I was listening to the « Let them be Theory » episode from Mel Robbins Podcast. It really help me make peace with some situations I have been going through.
In resume, you have to tell yourself « let them » to every situations you are not directly affected by. If it’s part of their past, and you can see the problem but they can’t, let them. If the situation doesn’t affect your life/ present moment directly, let them. If they don’t want to listen to your opinions, let them. If they are not making any sens to you, let them, don’t try to fight them. You must be in a mindset of acceptance of what is. This mindset kinda force you to sit in the chaos of life without the mental charge of trying to fix everything.
It put you in a observant role and allows you to see everyone for who they truly are and not who you would like them to be…
Let me convince you how great it is !
- You can make clear decision on who you want to keep in your life. You will base your decision on who they are now and not who they can potentially be … I promise you it will make the decision easier.
- People will appreciate the fact that they can be themselves around you
- You will learn so much about the people surrounding you. The bond between you and your love one will be stronger and healthier than ever.
- You will be able to appreciate and truly love your friend and family. You will eventually stop seing what is wrong with them… Instead, you will be able to focus your energy on their qualities. Automatically you will think of ways to empower everyone around you.
It’s all I discovered so far guys…
My boyfriend is like the master Shifu of this theory. I just don’t understand how he is able to not care lol. He really is the reason of all of my progress so far. Whenever I start complaining about someone else life and how stupido and nonsense it is to me, he reminds me how great it is that it’s not our problem.
I truly realize how stupid I sounded when he told me « is it really what you are using your intelligence for? » « Your energy is way too powerful to give it to someone who will never care as much as you do » (Let me tell you, I have never been so quiet since then … AHAHAH)
This is what brings me back to my other blogs, do it for you. It reminds me how important it is to put our oxygen mask first … Like my boyfriend told me, « Lead by exemples not words ».
Be kind with yourself. Nobody will love you as much as you can. Don’t neglect how important healing yourself first is. Stay safe XX